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Advice for Living in A World Being Changed by AI
Short of time? Read the key takeaways. ⚖️ AI is a profoundly mixed technology. Like nuclear energy, it offers major benefits (e.g., better information, education, creativity, healthcare) while also posing serious risks (e.g., misinformation, job loss, inequality, and potential existential threats). 🧠 Public perception of AI is distorted by both hype and skepticism. Many people underestimate current capabilities due to outdated experiences, bias, or backlash against hype, e
6 days ago15 min read


The Most Important Concept for a Healthy Relationship (In this Psychologist’s Opinion)
Short of time? Read the key takeaways. ❤️ "Communication problems" often mask unmet attachment needs. In relationships, conflict frequently signals something deeper: a need to feel safe, understood, and secure. When these needs go unmet, they surface as stress, anxiety, and recurring friction. 😰 Losing connection triggers a primal panic response. Humans are wired to rely on close relationships for emotional regulation. Research shows that a partner's presence, especially i
Apr 211 min read


Lies, Damn Lies, and Fabricated Options
Image depicting a gyroscope Short of time? Read the key takeaways. 🧠 Fabricated options feel real but aren't. Plenty of things that seem imaginable are actually inconsistent or impossible. This even applies to decision making contexts. You might imagine your options are A and B, without noticing that careful examination reveals that one of those options is inconsistent or impossible. It's a fabricated option . ⚠️ Fabricated options disguise uncomfortable tradeoffs. When we
Mar 2512 min read
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